Lot of guys ask me the same question: how to become seducer/pickup-artist/expert for laying women. They also often ask me what line to use to get in, which specific sentence to say, how to make a good game-plan etc.
The equasion is: the more you depend on various 'methods' and 'systems' based on what you have to say to lay women, the less success you gonna have.
Why?
1. Women have incredible radars for shit. If your 'technique' isn't perfect, you're not gonna get a pussy because from their perspective, if you need to sell a story to get laid, then you are worth shit. They want 'attractive' guys, and 'attractive' guys don't need to perform stuff in order to get chicks.
2. Depending on complicated 'techniques' fucks you up internally. It projects or maintains a strong belief in you that you are not worthy, that you have no right to get a hot chick. And women feel this insecurity in men. They are repulsed by timid, confused and insecure men that doesn't know what they want. The best opener, pattern or C&F line can't help then to take a beautiful chick to bed. Every man that wishes to become a good seducer should tend to end up as a natural seducer. Natural seducer is a guy who became one with his stuff. He doesn't have to think about wha he says, he is calm and more comfortable in company of good looking women than alone. He doesn't carry a burden of routines to perform and unchangeable plans to fulfill. He doesn't think he's obliged to do any action to attract women, yet women are attracted to him wherever he goes.
Routines are just a ladder that is to be thrown away when you get on the top. Once when you are there you can say whatever you want and still get a chick. That should be objective of all future seducers.
The more complicated game, the less success is gonna follow. It's easy to get lost in the process.
Insted think on this: people mate since the beginning of time - there is nothing more natural than getting laid.
Brothers, if you want a game, a plan, two steps are enough:
A) Find an attractive chick
B) Fuck her
So simple.
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